Weekly reflection: Most people trade their future for fleeting pleasure. Here’s how to break free.

Instant gratification is the name of today's game.

It's easy to give in to the temptation of now: endless scrolling, junk food, or avoiding important tasks to watch one more episode.

But every time we fall into the traps, we move further away from the future that we actually want.

Modern life is purposefully designed to pull you into a cycle of short-term rewards. Your attention has been productised.

From social media algorithms, fast food, binge-worthy shows - everything is optimised to capture your attention and offer a quick hit of dopamine.

The price is quite steep

• Lost productivity. The hours spent chasing distractions could’ve been used building your skills, business, or health.
• Compounding bad habits. What starts as “just one episode” or “just one day off” can snowball into months or years of stagnation.
• Deferred dreams. Every shortcut comes at the expense of the future you’re trying to create.

Your brain does not prioritise long-term thinking. It's wired to seek immediate rewards to conserve energy and keep you safe.

We chase fleeting pleasures because they are

1. Easy and the pay off requires no effort.
2. Predictable and you know it'll feel good, even if briefly.
3. Accessible - instant gratification is always just a tap away.

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The good news? You can reclaim control. Here’s how in five steps

1. Build Awareness.​
   Start recognising the moments you’re trading long-term gain for short-term pleasure. Are you scrolling your phone instead of working? Reaching for snacks out of boredom? Awareness is the first step to change.
2. Replace, Don’t Remove.​
   It’s easier to swap bad habits for better ones than to quit cold turkey. For example:
   • Replace mindless scrolling with journaling or reading.
   • Swap junk food for healthier, but still satisfying, alternatives.
3. Delay the Reward.​
   Train your brain to tolerate discomfort by postponing gratification. Set a timer: "I’ll check my phone in 20 minutes." Often, the urge passes before the timer does.
4. Focus on the Bigger Picture.​
   Write down your long-term goals and revisit them often. When tempted by a fleeting pleasure, ask yourself: Does this align with my vision?
5. Engineer Your Environment.​
   Remove temptation from your surroundings. If you struggle with social media, delete the apps or use time-blocking tools. If junk food is your vice, don’t keep it in the house.

Being disciplined has a compounding effect. Every time you resist fleeting pleasures, you’re not just saving time, you’re strengthening your self-control.

The small actions you take today create the person you'll become tomorrow. What short term impulse will you block today to invest in your future?

Aphorisms

1. What is done in haste is often repented at leisure: Actions taken quickly or impulsively, without careful thought or consideration, often lead to regret later on.

2. The person you are the most afraid to contradict is yourself - Nassim Nicholas Taleb

Sometimes we face internal conflicts when confronting our own beliefs, assumptions, or past decisions. People are sometimes more afraid to challenge their own thoughts and actions than those of others. This fear may come from the discomfort of realising we were wrong, the potential upheaval of our self-image, or the difficulty in facing the truth about ourselves.

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P.S. In case you missed my previous posts, you can check them out here.

Until next time,

Daniel